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Reader, can you relate to this? A woman reached out to me this week, saying she'd read my post about betrayal and codependency, but she hadn't been betrayed, so she didn't understand why she felt all those same things. I get it. So many people have sat in my space with that very dilemma - living all the codependency symptoms, but never had anyone in their life with addiction or substance dependency. That's what we believed was the culprit in the old days, but I'm here to tell you - it's not....
Reader, one of my greatest, brightest joys is when my 5yr old grandgirl sees me and runs screaming "Kaaaaaaaaakkkkiiii" and jumps in my arms. She squeezes me tight around my neck and says, "I love you, Kaki - I was missin you!" Melts. My. Heart. God, I love that kid. She came into my life at the very same time my husband was leaving it and I was so grateful to be able to just be present with her, in my role as Kaki, and not my role as...
When I accidently discovered my husband's infidelity on our lovely vacation in Tulum - it wasn't just a mid-life fling I stumbled on. It was a long time affair with a married woman he'd been carrying on since before we even met! I kid you not. We were only 4.5 years into our relationship at that point - 2.5 years married. He'd carried this on through 2 years of courtship, dating, proposing, getting married, being married, integrating families, building businesses - we had a LIFE together. I...